| i just found this convo interesting..
GiRL: i'm in love with my bestfriend.
ME: & is that a good thing or a bad thing for you ?!
GiRL: i don't know.
ME: what do you mean?
GiRL: as bestfriends, we have so much fun together, always laughing and smiling. we always joke around together and nothing is a problem. i love him as a bestfriend .. and more than that. i just dont know if i should tell him. i'm scared that our friendship will change.. for bad. would if he doesn't feel the same way ? i'd feel really dumb for having these feelings. .. tell ME, is it a good or a bad thing?
ME: well .. it really depends. if he feels the same way, then its a good thing. if he doesnt, then it's kind of bad. since your bestfriends, jus tell him straight up bcus friendships are all about HONESTY. dont be scared. life is always this way, taking chances. jus remember, hwen u explain it to him, tell him how you REALLY feel. .. tell him if he doesnt feel the same way, that you hope your friendship will not change into a bad one. jus take it to the heart & give the best explanation. if he's your bestfriend, then he should still always be there for you no matter what. if he does feel the same way, then thats good. u decide together whether or not you wanna take it to the next nevel.
GiRL: but there's something else bothering me too.
ME: what ?!
GiRL: if he does feel the same way & something does go wrong, like if we break up. what will happen then ? it wouldnt be as the same as before, would it ?
ME: that's tough. buh like i said, it really depends. it depends what kind of qualities are in you and your relationship. girl, if you can just believe, then you can do it. its up to you two to make the best outta your relationship. if he's a smart boy, he wont let anything destroy the friendship/relationship you have. if he doesn't do anything to make it stay the way it is or change for the better, then.. he's a dumb one.
GiRL: i'll take your words & do it. but, tell me.. do you know how it feels to fall in love with your bestfriend ?
ME: lol.. ofcourse i do. i dont really know how to explain it. buh trust me, i was scared myself to tell him straight up. .. especially if he has a girl. `;/ so everything was confusing for me. they always said that bestfriends are a good start for a relationship. .. he was always there for mee no matter what and we talked everyday, laughing and jokin' around. and i wished, it could be more than that. but i was scared, and even if i did tell him, i had NO chance 'cos like i said, he had a girl. it was sad 'cos that jus wasnt like me. usually, i dont like boys who are taken. but there was something special about this one. i fell in love more and more, and did try to back off. i didnt wanna keep falling 'cos i thot it was useless anyways. ... he wouldnt feel the same way. .. few months had passed, thru all that time, i fell in and out of love with him. buh always came back. "i tried to move on but you're not gone" .. it was hard to move on, bcus.. he was the one i talk to everyday, how can i just push all my feelings away ?! oh yeh, by the way .. i did tell him what i felt. .. and i dont think our friendship did change. it actually.. got better. then jus one day, i went out with this other boy. .. on the same day .. he broke up with his girl. how stupid can that be ?! and yes, i still had feelings for him. and .. he felt the same way. .. and i asked myself, why did this have to happen to me ?! .. 2 days lata, i broke up with the other guy .. bcus of the bestfriend i've been feeling for what seemed to be a long time. .. and everything worked out.. just the way i wanted it to be. .. me and him are together now,.. the love of my life & bestfriend forever, jayj.
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